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  • Nanny Diaries: Nigerian Mothers Talk About the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

    “My last nanny tried to steal my laptop. I could not believe my eyes.”

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    Adanma, 35

    Personally, I���ve been really lucky when it comes to nannies. Not even my experiences as a mother but my mother���s experiences too. My mother had the same nanny assisting her while raising all 6 of her children. I can���t say her name here but she was one of the highlights of my childhood. My mother trusted her completely and she was practically a sibling. It was heartbreaking when she left. A lot of mothers need help but don���t bother getting a nanny for reasons I think are rooted in paranoia, but not me. I���ve had the same nanny for 4 years helping with my children (2 and 4 years old) and it���s been smooth sailing. 10/10, will definitely recommend it. LOL

    Jenrola, 29

    My last nanny tried to steal my laptop. It���s not like I didn���t know she was a thief but up until that incident, she had only taken small things I was able to overlook. Small food here, N200 there. But that day felt like a dream. I could not believe my eyes. I was sitting in the living room watching TV when she walked past me and out the front door. Usually, this wouldn���t even grab my attention but the way she zoomed past made me suspicious. I quickly followed her outside and found her struggling to open the gate with one hand while holding something under her shirt with the other. I asked her to show me what was under her shirt and lo and behold, it was my laptop and charger. I was furious and impressed at the same time. I guess I should���ve known that not calling her out for the small stuff would only convince her to up her game. She really said, ���go big or go home.���

    So I sent her home.

    Philomena, 45

    My experiences with nannies have been just fine. In the periods I needed the help, I had about 4 nannies (never at the same time) and I would say that all of them were adequate. I can���t point out one that was spectacular or bad, which is great sha. Because of the stories I���ve heard from other mothers about their experiences, ehn. It���s God that will save somebody. Anyway, I would advise mothers to get nannies. Children are a blessing from God but they���re also a lot of stress. If you can afford help, get it.

    Jennifer, 26

    Getting a nanny is something I told myself I���d never do because the idea of trusting one���s child(ren) with a stranger makes me hyperventilate. But I was forced to do it after having my first child in 2020. Basically, I had underestimated the toll childbirth and motherhood would take on my body so after returning home from the hospital, I was exhausted all the time because I couldn���t catch a break. My mum was supposed to come help for a few months but she couldn���t leave my dad because he was sick at the time. After struggling for a while, I begged my mum to help me find a nanny, and she did. The nanny has lived with me for almost two years now. Her work is great and we get along really well. I don���t regret my decision to get a nanny.

    The key to finding the right nanny is vetting prospective candidates properly. Considering the fact that people who need nannies are already overcome with responsibilities, it���s easy for them to possibly dismiss the vetting process. That���s a  problem the company, EveryNanny, aims to solve.

    is a one-stop caregiver platform, which aims to be the foremost caregiver recruitment and placement agency in Nigeria. It was developed to promote stress-free parenting because they understand children are precious gifts, and as a result, it is critical to find the right caregivers for them. Their dedication to quality, safety, trust and security is unmatched.

    The platform offers a list of professional caregivers based on your budget, skill requirement, accommodation preferences, etc. Learn more .

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