We understand how sad it must feel to live your truth outside of bisexual visibility day. Especially when you feel like your identity isnt valid and you dont see enough bisexual representation in mainstream media.
Thats why weve come up with seven simple ways to feel less invisible as a bisexual person.
Walk anywhere and take whatever you like
I mean, youre already invisible so do crime. How will they see you to catch? Walk into that store youve been eyeing for months and pick whatever you like. In fact, go to an amala joint and just dish whatever you like, eat and dont pay. Youre basically untouchable at this point.
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Walk up to random people and shout, Its just a phase.
I strongly suggest you make use of a megaphone so its more effective. Since everybody thinks its okay to tell you how to identify, they should be okay hearing it back too. If you like, set a reminder to send this to random group chats daily. Anything to get the message across. They already think youre bisexual for attention anyway.
Wear the flag everywhere
Its a beautiful flag, so buy many yards to sew as many clothes as possible. Itll call attention to you, and maybe youll be more visible. Itll also make Tunde from bumble stop saying stupid shit like, Wow, Ive never met a bisexual in my life, before proceeding to ask for a threesome.
Choose yourself
Since everyones favourite pastime is to tell you to pick a side, dont let them know your next move. Choose yourself instead. As a bisexual person, your dating pool is instantly smaller because queer women think youd cheat, and the men just want threesomes. Spare yourself all that and date yourself. It cant get more self-love than that.
Watch music videos that were your bisexual awakening
Like everyone else, there must be one or ten music videos that were your queer awakening. Whether its all of Beyonce’s music videos or that one song with , its hard to feel invisible when youre watching things that make you feel seen.
Take a quiz
You know nothing makes you feel better than a good How bisexual are you quiz. Maybe youll finally figure it out, or probably not. Because your attraction to both genders might not be equal, and thats okay.
Watch your favourite shows
I know you watch it for the plot and amazing OST, and not for the two very different characters you have a crush on. When you feel the most invisible, you can always find comfort in romanticising a life where youre married to both your celebrity crushes.
